Finally! I was able to pay forward a surprise happy hour on an unsuspecting commuter. If you recall, in August I blogged about a woman who carried an extra plastic cup with her Friday carton of wine in hopes of sharing a weekend toast with some new face. On August 13, that face was me; and I was so touched by the gesture, I vowed to pay it forward. Since that time, though, I have been unsuccessful in my efforts. Not for lack of trying. It seems that more often than not on the Fridays when I have decided to purchase a carton of wine and get two cups from the Union Station liquor store, the person sitting next to me is not of legal drinking age or is so engrossed in a telephone conversation that I have never been able to offer them a glass of wine. That is until last night.
Jeff, a young professional whom I'd say was in his early 30s, sat down with a sigh in the seat next to me and I could just tell he'd had one of those days.
"How long have you been commuting?" I asked.
"About four months," he said. "It's killing me."
"Perhaps I can make it better," I told him as I produced my two plastic cups and carton of wine. "Would you like to share a cup with me?"
He started to grin and said, "Is it red or white?" "Red gives me heartburn."
"It's white," I responded as I watched his grin grow.
So we shared a glass and chatted for more than an hour and I told him about my first happy hour friend and how I'd vowed to do the same thing. He said he would carry on the movement. "Maybe not every Friday," he told me, "but I'll try it at least a couple of times." I just hope I'm the person sitting next to him when he does. Even if I'm not, though, at least I've done my part to pay it forward.